“Something very important that I’ve learned is that I don’t have to do what my parents did. I can change, I can break the cycle right here right now and I don’t have to carry it.

I may see a lot of negatives but why do I have to be negative? Why do I have to do the same thing? And with all the assets that we have I can change and I can make it better for my children and make them better parents when they become parents.”